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Blacque Love
Photo by Terrillo Walls on Pexels.com As a culture, we have struggled with this thing call love. For decades we have had to fight the...
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Feb 15, 20203 min read


A Way to a Man’s Heart
Photo by nappy on Pexels.com As women, we don’t realize how important we are to a man’s ability to make it through this cold world. Men...
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Jun 17, 20193 min read


Can I Talk To You?
Photo by rawpixel.com on Pexels.com One thing I cannot stand is not being able to communicate with someone that I care about. I should...
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Jun 11, 20192 min read


How Do You Love Me?
Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com I had to learn that before anyone attempted to fall in love with me; I had to fall in love with myself...
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Mar 24, 20193 min read


Don’t Be Blinded When There Are Signs
As you all know it is teen domestic violence awareness month. It is very important to recognize the signs before getting caught up into...
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Feb 25, 20193 min read


When Your Heart Goes Numb
I scare myself sometimes. I don’t want to be hurt anymore so I put up a barrier that will protect my heart. Don’t get me wrong, I want...
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Jan 22, 20193 min read


Soul Ties
Most of the time when you hear the words “soul ties”, it is usually connected to sex. But that isn’t the only way it can occur. When...
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Jan 3, 20196 min read


Love Languages and Hidden Figures
Most of us have had the opportunity to fall in love a couple of times in our lifetime. The type of love that has you with butterflies...
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Oct 26, 20184 min read


Sometimes You Just Need To Fall Back
It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to know when someone is giving you the cold shoulder. Better yet, they are just not that interested...
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Oct 21, 20184 min read


Why Transparency Is So Important To Me
Transparency is a requirement for me. I don’t want to be fooled or lied to for any reason. I have been thru that enough in my lifetime....
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Sep 11, 20183 min read


WANTED: Sugar Babies Looking For A Sugar Momma
Ladies this is a PSA announcement. It is an epidemic going on!!! There are too many guys looking for women to take care of them!!!...
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Sep 1, 20184 min read


Peace Be Still
We all have a sense of intuition. Some are stronger than others. I try to listen to my inner voice more than ever simply because I am trying not to become attached to others in a way that will cause me to hurt or be disappointed. I don’t do that just when it deals with a partner, but meeting new people as well. I don’t want anyone in my circle that may cause dysfunction or stress. I want to remain at peace and happy with the decisions and people I deal with. Do you ever
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Aug 19, 20184 min read


You Ain’t Got To Lie Craig; A Letter to the Fellas Who Can’t Be Faithful And Don’t
Attention Fellas!!!! If you want to just have sex with a woman; then say so. If you don’t want a relationship just say that. If you are...
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Aug 7, 20185 min read


When You Can’t Decide Between The Two; This Is What You Do
Throughout relationships, you may find yourself in a thing or two that changes the magnitude of how you view commitment. It’s the thing...
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Jul 22, 20187 min read


The Dating Game
I must say that dating in 2018 is for the birds!!! The older I get; the less I can tolerate. Ladies and gentlemen, I don’t understand why we must play these games just to get to know someone. Isn’t dating about trying to see who you are compatible with mentally, spiritually, physically, and hopefully in the future? Is it okay to date a plethora of people at the same time? Is it actually called dating when sex gets involved with more than one party in your “dating” scene? Can
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Jun 19, 20184 min read


It’s My Time To Shine!!
It is my time to shine and I know it!! Ain’t nothing wrong with having a little confidence from time to time. Hell, I have been thru so...
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Jun 15, 20182 min read


Loyalty
According to the Collins English dictionary, “ Loyalty is the quality of staying firm in your friendship or support for someone or something”. Loyalty is being devoted and faithful to someone, something, or a belief wholeheartedly that it may risk losing family, friendship, and your mind!! But when is it NOT ok to be loyal to someone who continuously lies, disappoints, and participate in behavior that is not only risky but can cause harm to others?
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Jun 3, 20182 min read


SHOOT YOUR SHOT!!
Within time, you soon become familiar with what it is you want. From one of my previous blogs concerning dating, I acknowledged that I...
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May 14, 20182 min read


The Vicious Cycle of Karmic Relationships
Real Talk with Anele- Relationship I had the pleasure of viewing a wonderful South African talk show discussing relationships (Click on...
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Apr 15, 20185 min read


Give Him Something He Can Feel
Ladies, I know we may complain about our men, but there are some good ones sprinkled around. I’m waiting on Mr. Right to come scoop me...
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Mar 12, 20184 min read
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