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How Do You Love Me?
Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com I had to learn that before anyone attempted to fall in love with me; I had to fall in love with myself...
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Mar 24, 20193 min read


Woman to Woman
The most beautiful person that was created was, of course, the woman!!! The strength and substance we have to endure are one to be...
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Mar 7, 20193 min read


Don’t Be Blinded When There Are Signs
As you all know it is teen domestic violence awareness month. It is very important to recognize the signs before getting caught up into...
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Feb 25, 20193 min read


A Black Butterfly on a Lotus Flower
This weekend I did something I thought I would never do; I participated in a boudoir session. Having so many insecurities concerning my...
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Jan 30, 20194 min read


When Your Heart Goes Numb
I scare myself sometimes. I don’t want to be hurt anymore so I put up a barrier that will protect my heart. Don’t get me wrong, I want...
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Jan 22, 20193 min read


Soul Ties
Most of the time when you hear the words “soul ties”, it is usually connected to sex. But that isn’t the only way it can occur. When...
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Jan 3, 20196 min read


Death is Upon Us
Within these past couples of years, I have encountered an enormous amount of death within my circle. So much so, that it has molded me...
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Dec 22, 20183 min read


Winter Blues
During the holidays and winter months, so many of us feel the darkness of grief and depression. I can vouch for myself, family, friends,...
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Dec 12, 20184 min read


Love Languages and Hidden Figures
Most of us have had the opportunity to fall in love a couple of times in our lifetime. The type of love that has you with butterflies...
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Oct 26, 20184 min read


Sometimes You Just Need To Fall Back
It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to know when someone is giving you the cold shoulder. Better yet, they are just not that interested...
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Oct 21, 20184 min read


Love Doesn’t Hurt Anymore!!!
I remember when I decided to be honest with myself and to others about what was really going on with me a couple of years ago. And God...
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Oct 3, 20184 min read


FRENEMIES
When you have friends, you should never have to worry about if what you’ve shared with them in confidence becomes the sword that stabs...
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Sep 29, 20183 min read


My Secret Garden
When I decide to become intimate with you; I give you all of me. I ain’t talking about a one-night stand or a quickie in the backroom. That isn’t intimacy to me (unless you’re my main man and you need one for the day hahaha!!) . Being intimate with me comes with kisses, conversations, and walking around naked without caring how my appearance is when I am around you. Truth be told, I don’t kiss just anyone. If you don’t get any kisses from me; then you mean absolutely not
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Sep 15, 20184 min read


Why Transparency Is So Important To Me
Transparency is a requirement for me. I don’t want to be fooled or lied to for any reason. I have been thru that enough in my lifetime....
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Sep 11, 20183 min read


WANTED: Sugar Babies Looking For A Sugar Momma
Ladies this is a PSA announcement. It is an epidemic going on!!! There are too many guys looking for women to take care of them!!!...
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Sep 1, 20184 min read


Peace Be Still
We all have a sense of intuition. Some are stronger than others. I try to listen to my inner voice more than ever simply because I am trying not to become attached to others in a way that will cause me to hurt or be disappointed. I don’t do that just when it deals with a partner, but meeting new people as well. I don’t want anyone in my circle that may cause dysfunction or stress. I want to remain at peace and happy with the decisions and people I deal with. Do you ever
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Aug 19, 20184 min read


You Ain’t Got To Lie Craig; A Letter to the Fellas Who Can’t Be Faithful And Don’t
Attention Fellas!!!! If you want to just have sex with a woman; then say so. If you don’t want a relationship just say that. If you are...
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Aug 7, 20185 min read


No One Owes You Shit!!!
I saw a posting earlier this week on one of my Facebook friends concerning the topic, “You’re Not Entitled To Shit!!!” and it struck a...
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Jul 29, 20186 min read


When You Can’t Decide Between The Two; This Is What You Do
Throughout relationships, you may find yourself in a thing or two that changes the magnitude of how you view commitment. It’s the thing...
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Jul 22, 20187 min read


Marriage Isn’t a Game; Marriage Is…
I’ve been married before and I can say that at the time, I got married for the wrong reasons. One reason was I was tired of being the...
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Jul 15, 20185 min read
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