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Independent Black Woman
Photo by Felicity Tai on Pexels.com When I hear the words “independent black woman,” I cringe now because I no longer want to carry the...
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Nov 8, 20214 min read
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Cleaning Your Space
Photo by Uriel Mont on Pexels.com My other favorite time of the year is approaching, Fall!!! I love when the temperature is just right,...
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Aug 17, 20213 min read
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Mental Health and the Black Community
The most important thing that has come from this pandemic is the state of mental health. The topic of mental health is shunned upon in...
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Aug 12, 20215 min read
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Throwing Stones
Photo by Ron Lach on Pexels.com Nothing hurts my heart more than seeing someone being hurt by others. It hit me when I ran into one of my...
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Jul 13, 20216 min read
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The Quiet Storm
Photo by Aleks Magnusson on Pexels.com This past couple of months for me has been something for the record books. And I am sure it has...
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May 3, 20206 min read
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It’s Time to Free Your Mind
Photo by Adrienne Andersen on Pexels.com The holiday season has arrived and there is so much to do. You have so many commitments and...
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Nov 24, 20193 min read
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THE MAN has insecurities!!
Some men will not admit they have insecurities. In fact, the word “insecure” is always tied to women. Why is that? Is it that if they...
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Aug 19, 20194 min read
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A Black Butterfly on a Lotus Flower
This weekend I did something I thought I would never do; I participated in a boudoir session. Having so many insecurities concerning my...
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Jan 30, 20194 min read
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When Your Heart Goes Numb
I scare myself sometimes. I don’t want to be hurt anymore so I put up a barrier that will protect my heart. Don’t get me wrong, I want...
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Jan 22, 20193 min read
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Death is Upon Us
Within these past couples of years, I have encountered an enormous amount of death within my circle. So much so, that it has molded me...
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Dec 22, 20183 min read
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Love Languages and Hidden Figures
Most of us have had the opportunity to fall in love a couple of times in our lifetime. The type of love that has you with butterflies...
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Oct 26, 20184 min read
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Sometimes You Just Need To Fall Back
It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to know when someone is giving you the cold shoulder. Better yet, they are just not that interested...
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Oct 21, 20184 min read
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Why Transparency Is So Important To Me
Transparency is a requirement for me. I don’t want to be fooled or lied to for any reason. I have been thru that enough in my lifetime....
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Sep 11, 20183 min read
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You Ain’t Got To Lie Craig; A Letter to the Fellas Who Can’t Be Faithful And Don’t
Attention Fellas!!!! If you want to just have sex with a woman; then say so. If you don’t want a relationship just say that. If you are...
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Aug 8, 20185 min read
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When You Can’t Decide Between The Two; This Is What You Do
Throughout relationships, you may find yourself in a thing or two that changes the magnitude of how you view commitment. It’s the thing...
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Jul 22, 20187 min read
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The Dating Game
I must say that dating in 2018 is for the birds!!! The older I get; the less I can tolerate. Ladies and gentlemen, I don’t understand why...
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Jun 19, 20184 min read
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It’s My Time To Shine!!
It is my time to shine and I know it!! Ain’t nothing wrong with having a little confidence from time to time. Hell, I have been thru so...
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Jun 15, 20182 min read
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Oooh Nooo, Not My Child!!!
Apparently, there are some parents that seem to turn a blind eye to how their children act out in public. It is always the teachers,...
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Jun 5, 20184 min read
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Loyalty
According to the Collins English dictionary, “Loyalty is the quality of staying firm in your friendship or support for someone or...
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Jun 3, 20182 min read
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Can You Hear Me Now?
I can remember back in the day when it was shunned upon if you showed any sign of weakness. You could not express to your parents or...
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May 27, 20183 min read
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