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Crabs in a Barrel
Photo by Christina Morillo on Pexels.com As we mature into adulthood; we will one-day face scenarios that will question our friendships,...
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Feb 25, 20203 min read


THE MAN has insecurities!!
Some men will not admit they have insecurities. In fact, the word “insecure” is always tied to women. Why is that? Is it that if they...
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Aug 19, 20194 min read


A Way to a Man’s Heart
Photo by nappy on Pexels.com As women, we don’t realize how important we are to a man’s ability to make it through this cold world. Men...
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Jun 17, 20193 min read


How Do You Love Me?
Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com I had to learn that before anyone attempted to fall in love with me; I had to fall in love with myself...
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Mar 24, 20193 min read


Woman to Woman
The most beautiful person that was created was, of course, the woman!!! The strength and substance we have to endure are one to be...
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Mar 7, 20193 min read


A Black Butterfly on a Lotus Flower
This weekend I did something I thought I would never do; I participated in a boudoir session. Having so many insecurities concerning my...
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Jan 30, 20194 min read


Love Languages and Hidden Figures
Most of us have had the opportunity to fall in love a couple of times in our lifetime. The type of love that has you with butterflies...
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Oct 26, 20184 min read


Sometimes You Just Need To Fall Back
It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to know when someone is giving you the cold shoulder. Better yet, they are just not that interested...
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Oct 21, 20184 min read


WANTED: Sugar Babies Looking For A Sugar Momma
Ladies this is a PSA announcement. It is an epidemic going on!!! There are too many guys looking for women to take care of them!!!...
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Sep 1, 20184 min read


You Ain’t Got To Lie Craig; A Letter to the Fellas Who Can’t Be Faithful And Don’t
Attention Fellas!!!! If you want to just have sex with a woman; then say so. If you don’t want a relationship just say that. If you are...
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Aug 7, 20185 min read


The Dating Game
I must say that dating in 2018 is for the birds!!! The older I get; the less I can tolerate. Ladies and gentlemen, I don’t understand why we must play these games just to get to know someone. Isn’t dating about trying to see who you are compatible with mentally, spiritually, physically, and hopefully in the future? Is it okay to date a plethora of people at the same time? Is it actually called dating when sex gets involved with more than one party in your “dating” scene? Can
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Jun 19, 20184 min read


It’s My Time To Shine!!
It is my time to shine and I know it!! Ain’t nothing wrong with having a little confidence from time to time. Hell, I have been thru so...
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Jun 15, 20182 min read


Can You Hear Me Now?
I can remember back in the day when it was shunned upon if you showed any sign of weakness. You could not express to your parents or...
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May 27, 20183 min read


Motherhood
Being a mother isn’t an easy job at all. To actually be responsible for another human being’s character, mannerism, education, and...
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May 8, 20183 min read


The Vicious Cycle of Karmic Relationships
Real Talk with Anele- Relationship I had the pleasure of viewing a wonderful South African talk show discussing relationships (Click on...
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Apr 15, 20185 min read


Is Chivalry DEAD???
Chivalry has become a thing of the pass in my opinion. We have justified lowering expectations and standards in order to appease what has become “acceptable behavior”. Some men and women hear the word chivalry and began to cringe. The very thought of them attempting to become a “gentlemen” gets them nervous. Many men exhibited chivalry acts such as opening doors, pulling your chair out, and giving you his coat when you were cold on a consistent basis. He didn’t expect a woman
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Mar 6, 20183 min read


SISTERHOOD!!!!
After watching the greatest movie of all time, Black Panther , I witnessed what a beautiful thing it would be if black women worked together instead of against each other. The power of a woman in itself is magnificent, but the beauty of a black woman is something to be admired. Hey, we get one month out of the year to exhibit all the great things “we” have done throughout the century but it still doesn’t do us, black women, enough justice. We as women support and fight for ou
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Feb 26, 20187 min read
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