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That’s The Way Life Goes
Photo by Leon Macapagal on Pexels.com I have learned a lot throughout this thing called life, and I ain’t done with the learning process...
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Sep 8, 20214 min read


Up In Age
As I get older, I realized I have to face the reality of losing my parents. It hits a little different when it knocks on your door...
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May 8, 20214 min read


The Quiet Storm
Photo by Aleks Magnusson on Pexels.com This past couple of months for me has been something for the record books. And I am sure it has...
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May 3, 20206 min read


I AM TAKING ACCOUNTABILITY FOR MY ACTIONS!! MOMENT OF TRUTH..
All it takes is for you to get burned in order for you to learn lessons. That’s why I appreciate all the life lessons, good and bad. ...
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Jun 23, 20194 min read


Peace Be Still
We all have a sense of intuition. Some are stronger than others. I try to listen to my inner voice more than ever simply because I am trying not to become attached to others in a way that will cause me to hurt or be disappointed. I don’t do that just when it deals with a partner, but meeting new people as well. I don’t want anyone in my circle that may cause dysfunction or stress. I want to remain at peace and happy with the decisions and people I deal with. Do you ever
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Aug 19, 20184 min read


No One Owes You Shit!!!
I saw a posting earlier this week on one of my Facebook friends concerning the topic, “You’re Not Entitled To Shit!!!” and it struck a...
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Jul 29, 20186 min read


Marriage Isn’t a Game; Marriage Is…
I’ve been married before and I can say that at the time, I got married for the wrong reasons. One reason was I was tired of being the...
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Jul 15, 20185 min read


Oooh Nooo, Not My Child!!!
Apparently, there are some parents that seem to turn a blind eye to how their children act out in public. It is always the teachers,...
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Jun 5, 20184 min read


Loyalty
According to the Collins English dictionary, “ Loyalty is the quality of staying firm in your friendship or support for someone or something”. Loyalty is being devoted and faithful to someone, something, or a belief wholeheartedly that it may risk losing family, friendship, and your mind!! But when is it NOT ok to be loyal to someone who continuously lies, disappoints, and participate in behavior that is not only risky but can cause harm to others?
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Jun 3, 20182 min read


Can You Hear Me Now?
I can remember back in the day when it was shunned upon if you showed any sign of weakness. You could not express to your parents or...
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May 27, 20183 min read


Motherhood
Being a mother isn’t an easy job at all. To actually be responsible for another human being’s character, mannerism, education, and...
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May 8, 20183 min read


Love Thy Neighbor
There is nothing better than having a relationship with your neighbors that create a “village” atmosphere. Every address I have ever lived; I always had great relationships with my neighbors. We looked out for one another regularly and kept a watchful eye out for our children. I can remember when I was a child how my parent’s and grandparent’s neighbors were also my disciplinarians. They made sure I wasn’t doing anything disrespectful or wrong in the area. My current situ
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May 2, 20183 min read


The Vicious Cycle of Karmic Relationships
Real Talk with Anele- Relationship I had the pleasure of viewing a wonderful South African talk show discussing relationships (Click on...
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Apr 15, 20185 min read


GO FUND ME A LIFE INSURANCE POLICY!
GoFundMe accounts have taken over life insurance policies hosting over 10,000 funeral and memorial campaigns to date and being the second...
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Apr 1, 20184 min read


A Fatherless Child
Within our society, it has become a necessity to ensure that our children have a reliable and honorable male figure in their lives. It...
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Mar 24, 20184 min read


Vengeance Is Not Mine
Have you ever wondered why certain people who always cause problems in people’s lives and/or hurt people never get what’s coming to them?...
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Mar 3, 20185 min read


Forgive or Not to Forgive; That is the Question
At my age, I have become accustomed to letting go without hatred. Remember I was bitter in my twenties and was headstrong. Now I am...
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Feb 24, 20185 min read


Teen Dating and Violence Awareness
The month of February is associated with love. What better way to introduce to our young teens the importance of a healthy...
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Feb 14, 20183 min read


Can I Borrow Your Ears?
I have encountered beautiful souls daily in my lifetime. It can be for just a few minutes or a lifetime. Think about it. The girls you met in the bathroom during a party (by the way those are the best type of girlfriends to have hahaha), in the line at the grocery store, or sitting beside you on the bus. If you take the time to be kind to another person; you would be amazed what you could actually learn from them just by rewarding them the opportunity to talk while you
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Feb 10, 20184 min read
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