Photo by Felicity Tai on Pexels.com When I hear the words “independent black woman,” I cringe now because I no longer want to carry the...

Photo by Terrillo Walls on Pexels.com As a culture, we have struggled with this thing call love.  For decades we have had to fight the...

Some men will not admit they have insecurities.  In fact, the word “insecure” is always tied to women.  Why is that?  Is it that if they...

Photo by rawpixel.com on Pexels.com One thing I cannot stand is not being able to communicate with someone that I care about.  I should...

Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com I had to learn that before anyone attempted to fall in love with me; I had to fall in love with myself...

As you all know it is teen domestic violence awareness month.  It is very important to recognize the signs before getting caught up into...

I scare myself sometimes. I don’t want to be hurt anymore so I put up a barrier that will protect my heart.  Don’t get me wrong, I want...

Most of the time when you hear the words “soul ties”, it is usually connected to sex. But that isn’t the only way it can occur. When...

Most of us have had the opportunity to fall in love a couple of times in our lifetime.  The type of love that has you with butterflies...

It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to know when someone is giving you the cold shoulder.  Better yet, they are just not that interested...

I remember when I decided to be honest with myself and to others about what was really going on with me a couple of years ago.  And God...

Ladies this is a PSA announcement. It is an epidemic going on!!! There are too many guys looking for women to take care of them!!!...

Attention Fellas!!!! If you want to just have sex with a woman; then say so.  If you don’t want a relationship just say that.  If you are...

I’ve been married before and I can say that at the time, I got married for the wrong reasons.  One reason was I was tired of being the...

I must say that dating in 2018 is for the birds!!! The older I get; the less I can tolerate. Ladies and gentlemen, I don’t understand why we must play these games just to get to know someone.  Isn’t dating about trying to see who you are compatible with mentally, spiritually, physically, and hopefully in the future? Is it okay to date a plethora of people at the same time? Is it actually called dating when sex gets involved with more than one party in your “dating” scene? Can

According to the Collins English dictionary, “ Loyalty is  the quality of staying firm in your friendship or support for someone or something”. Loyalty is being devoted and faithful to someone, something, or a belief wholeheartedly that it may risk losing family, friendship, and your mind!! But when is it NOT ok to be loyal to someone who continuously lies, disappoints, and participate in behavior that is not only risky but can cause harm to others?

Within time, you soon become familiar with what it is you want. From one of my previous blogs concerning dating, I acknowledged that I...

Real Talk with Anele- Relationship I had the pleasure of viewing a wonderful South African talk show discussing relationships (Click on...

Ladies, I know we may complain about our men, but there are some good ones sprinkled around.  I’m waiting on Mr. Right to come scoop me...

Chivalry has become a thing of the pass in my opinion. We have justified lowering expectations and standards in order to appease what has become “acceptable behavior”. Some men and women hear the word chivalry and began to cringe. The very thought of them attempting to become a “gentlemen” gets them nervous. Many men exhibited chivalry acts such as opening doors, pulling your chair out, and giving you his coat when you were cold on a consistent basis. He didn’t expect a woman