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Independent Black Woman
Photo by Felicity Tai on Pexels.com When I hear the words “independent black woman,” I cringe now because I no longer want to carry the...
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Nov 8, 20214 min read
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Blacque Love
Photo by Terrillo Walls on Pexels.com As a culture, we have struggled with this thing call love. For decades we have had to fight the...
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Feb 15, 20203 min read
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THE MAN has insecurities!!
Some men will not admit they have insecurities. In fact, the word “insecure” is always tied to women. Why is that? Is it that if they...
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Aug 19, 20194 min read
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Can I Talk To You?
Photo by rawpixel.com on Pexels.com One thing I cannot stand is not being able to communicate with someone that I care about. I should...
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Jun 11, 20192 min read
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How Do You Love Me?
Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com I had to learn that before anyone attempted to fall in love with me; I had to fall in love with myself...
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Mar 24, 20193 min read
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Don’t Be Blinded When There Are Signs
As you all know it is teen domestic violence awareness month. It is very important to recognize the signs before getting caught up into...
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Feb 25, 20193 min read
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When Your Heart Goes Numb
I scare myself sometimes. I don’t want to be hurt anymore so I put up a barrier that will protect my heart. Don’t get me wrong, I want...
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Jan 22, 20193 min read
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Soul Ties
Most of the time when you hear the words “soul ties”, it is usually connected to sex. But that isn’t the only way it can occur. When...
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Jan 3, 20196 min read
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Love Languages and Hidden Figures
Most of us have had the opportunity to fall in love a couple of times in our lifetime. The type of love that has you with butterflies...
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Oct 26, 20184 min read
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Sometimes You Just Need To Fall Back
It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to know when someone is giving you the cold shoulder. Better yet, they are just not that interested...
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Oct 21, 20184 min read
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Love Doesn’t Hurt Anymore!!!
I remember when I decided to be honest with myself and to others about what was really going on with me a couple of years ago. And God...
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Oct 3, 20184 min read
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WANTED: Sugar Babies Looking For A Sugar Momma
Ladies this is a PSA announcement. It is an epidemic going on!!! There are too many guys looking for women to take care of them!!!...
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Sep 1, 20184 min read
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You Ain’t Got To Lie Craig; A Letter to the Fellas Who Can’t Be Faithful And Don’t
Attention Fellas!!!! If you want to just have sex with a woman; then say so. If you don’t want a relationship just say that. If you are...
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Aug 8, 20185 min read
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Marriage Isn’t a Game; Marriage Is…
I’ve been married before and I can say that at the time, I got married for the wrong reasons. One reason was I was tired of being the...
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Jul 15, 20185 min read
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The Dating Game
I must say that dating in 2018 is for the birds!!! The older I get; the less I can tolerate. Ladies and gentlemen, I don’t understand why...
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Jun 19, 20184 min read
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Loyalty
According to the Collins English dictionary, “Loyalty is the quality of staying firm in your friendship or support for someone or...
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Jun 3, 20182 min read
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SHOOT YOUR SHOT!!
Within time, you soon become familiar with what it is you want. From one of my previous blogs concerning dating, I acknowledged that I...
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May 14, 20182 min read
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The Vicious Cycle of Karmic Relationships
Real Talk with Anele- Relationship I had the pleasure of viewing a wonderful South African talk show discussing relationships (Click on...
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Apr 15, 20185 min read
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Give Him Something He Can Feel
Ladies, I know we may complain about our men, but there are some good ones sprinkled around. I’m waiting on Mr. Right to come scoop me...
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Mar 12, 20184 min read
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Is Chivalry DEAD???
Chivalry has become a thing of the pass in my opinion. We have justified lowering expectations and standards in order to appease what has...
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Mar 6, 20183 min read
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