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Independent Black Woman
Photo by Felicity Tai on Pexels.com When I hear the words “independent black woman,” I cringe now because I no longer want to carry the...
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Nov 8, 20214 min read
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Throwing Stones
Photo by Ron Lach on Pexels.com Nothing hurts my heart more than seeing someone being hurt by others. It hit me when I ran into one of my...
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Jul 13, 20216 min read
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THE MAN has insecurities!!
Some men will not admit they have insecurities. In fact, the word “insecure” is always tied to women. Why is that? Is it that if they...
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Aug 19, 20194 min read
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How Do You Love Me?
Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com I had to learn that before anyone attempted to fall in love with me; I had to fall in love with myself...
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Mar 24, 20193 min read
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Woman to Woman
The most beautiful person that was created was, of course, the woman!!! The strength and substance we have to endure are one to be...
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Mar 7, 20193 min read
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A Black Butterfly on a Lotus Flower
This weekend I did something I thought I would never do; I participated in a boudoir session. Having so many insecurities concerning my...
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Jan 30, 20194 min read
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When Your Heart Goes Numb
I scare myself sometimes. I don’t want to be hurt anymore so I put up a barrier that will protect my heart. Don’t get me wrong, I want...
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Jan 22, 20193 min read
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Love Languages and Hidden Figures
Most of us have had the opportunity to fall in love a couple of times in our lifetime. The type of love that has you with butterflies...
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Oct 26, 20184 min read
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Sometimes You Just Need To Fall Back
It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to know when someone is giving you the cold shoulder. Better yet, they are just not that interested...
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Oct 21, 20184 min read
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Love Doesn’t Hurt Anymore!!!
I remember when I decided to be honest with myself and to others about what was really going on with me a couple of years ago. And God...
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Oct 3, 20184 min read
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No One Owes You Shit!!!
I saw a posting earlier this week on one of my Facebook friends concerning the topic, “You’re Not Entitled To Shit!!!” and it struck a...
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Jul 30, 20186 min read
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When You Can’t Decide Between The Two; This Is What You Do
Throughout relationships, you may find yourself in a thing or two that changes the magnitude of how you view commitment. It’s the thing...
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Jul 22, 20187 min read
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Marriage Isn’t a Game; Marriage Is…
I’ve been married before and I can say that at the time, I got married for the wrong reasons. One reason was I was tired of being the...
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Jul 15, 20185 min read
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The Dating Game
I must say that dating in 2018 is for the birds!!! The older I get; the less I can tolerate. Ladies and gentlemen, I don’t understand why...
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Jun 19, 20184 min read
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It’s My Time To Shine!!
It is my time to shine and I know it!! Ain’t nothing wrong with having a little confidence from time to time. Hell, I have been thru so...
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Jun 15, 20182 min read
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Oooh Nooo, Not My Child!!!
Apparently, there are some parents that seem to turn a blind eye to how their children act out in public. It is always the teachers,...
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Jun 5, 20184 min read
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Loyalty
According to the Collins English dictionary, “Loyalty is the quality of staying firm in your friendship or support for someone or...
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Jun 3, 20182 min read
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Can You Hear Me Now?
I can remember back in the day when it was shunned upon if you showed any sign of weakness. You could not express to your parents or...
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May 27, 20183 min read
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For the Love of Money
For the past couple of years, I have noticed an increase in shade thrown at people who do not wear specific name brand clothes and/or...
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May 20, 20184 min read
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Love Thy Neighbor
There is nothing better than having a relationship with your neighbors that create a “village” atmosphere. Every address I have ever...
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May 2, 20183 min read
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