Photo by Felicity Tai on Pexels.com When I hear the words “independent black woman,” I cringe now because I no longer want to carry the...

Photo by Ron Lach on Pexels.com Nothing hurts my heart more than seeing someone being hurt by others. It hit me when I ran into one of my...

Some men will not admit they have insecurities.  In fact, the word “insecure” is always tied to women.  Why is that?  Is it that if they...

Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com I had to learn that before anyone attempted to fall in love with me; I had to fall in love with myself...

The most beautiful person that was created was, of course, the woman!!! The strength and substance we have to endure are one to be...

This weekend I did something I thought I would never do; I participated in a boudoir session.  Having so many insecurities concerning my...

I scare myself sometimes. I don’t want to be hurt anymore so I put up a barrier that will protect my heart.  Don’t get me wrong, I want...

Most of us have had the opportunity to fall in love a couple of times in our lifetime.  The type of love that has you with butterflies...

It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to know when someone is giving you the cold shoulder.  Better yet, they are just not that interested...

I remember when I decided to be honest with myself and to others about what was really going on with me a couple of years ago.  And God...

I saw a posting earlier this week on one of my Facebook friends concerning the topic, “You’re Not Entitled To Shit!!!” and it struck a...

Throughout relationships, you may find yourself in a thing or two that changes the magnitude of how you view commitment. It’s the thing...

I’ve been married before and I can say that at the time, I got married for the wrong reasons.  One reason was I was tired of being the...

I must say that dating in 2018 is for the birds!!! The older I get; the less I can tolerate. Ladies and gentlemen, I don’t understand why we must play these games just to get to know someone.  Isn’t dating about trying to see who you are compatible with mentally, spiritually, physically, and hopefully in the future? Is it okay to date a plethora of people at the same time? Is it actually called dating when sex gets involved with more than one party in your “dating” scene? Can

It is my time to shine and I know it!!  Ain’t nothing wrong with having a little confidence from time to time. Hell, I have been thru so...

Apparently, there are some parents that seem to turn a blind eye to how their children act out in public.  It is always the teachers,...

According to the Collins English dictionary, “ Loyalty is  the quality of staying firm in your friendship or support for someone or something”. Loyalty is being devoted and faithful to someone, something, or a belief wholeheartedly that it may risk losing family, friendship, and your mind!! But when is it NOT ok to be loyal to someone who continuously lies, disappoints, and participate in behavior that is not only risky but can cause harm to others?

I can remember back in the day when it was shunned upon if you showed any sign of weakness.  You could not express to your parents or...

For the past couple of years, I have noticed an increase in shade thrown at people who do not wear specific name brand clothes and/or...

There is nothing better than having a relationship with your neighbors that create a “village” atmosphere.  Every address I have ever lived; I always had great relationships with my neighbors. We looked out for one another regularly and kept a watchful eye out for our children.  I can remember when I was a child how my parent’s and grandparent’s neighbors were also my disciplinarians.  They made sure I wasn’t doing anything disrespectful or wrong in the area.  My current situ