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Love Doesn’t Hurt Anymore!!!
I remember when I decided to be honest with myself and to others about what was really going on with me a couple of years ago. And God...
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Oct 3, 20184 min read


Why Transparency Is So Important To Me
Transparency is a requirement for me. I don’t want to be fooled or lied to for any reason. I have been thru that enough in my lifetime....
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Sep 11, 20183 min read


WANTED: Sugar Babies Looking For A Sugar Momma
Ladies this is a PSA announcement. It is an epidemic going on!!! There are too many guys looking for women to take care of them!!!...
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Sep 1, 20184 min read


Peace Be Still
We all have a sense of intuition. Some are stronger than others. I try to listen to my inner voice more than ever simply because I am trying not to become attached to others in a way that will cause me to hurt or be disappointed. I don’t do that just when it deals with a partner, but meeting new people as well. I don’t want anyone in my circle that may cause dysfunction or stress. I want to remain at peace and happy with the decisions and people I deal with. Do you ever
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Aug 19, 20184 min read


You Ain’t Got To Lie Craig; A Letter to the Fellas Who Can’t Be Faithful And Don’t
Attention Fellas!!!! If you want to just have sex with a woman; then say so. If you don’t want a relationship just say that. If you are...
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Aug 7, 20185 min read


No One Owes You Shit!!!
I saw a posting earlier this week on one of my Facebook friends concerning the topic, “You’re Not Entitled To Shit!!!” and it struck a...
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Jul 29, 20186 min read


When You Can’t Decide Between The Two; This Is What You Do
Throughout relationships, you may find yourself in a thing or two that changes the magnitude of how you view commitment. It’s the thing...
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Jul 22, 20187 min read


Marriage Isn’t a Game; Marriage Is…
I’ve been married before and I can say that at the time, I got married for the wrong reasons. One reason was I was tired of being the...
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Jul 15, 20185 min read


Filing Bankruptcy Doesn’t Fix Bad Financial Habits! Steps to Better Your Financial Situation
Hooray!!! You finally got approved to file for bankruptcy. You think the coast is clear and you can start all over again. You hit hard...
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Jul 4, 20186 min read


The Dating Game
I must say that dating in 2018 is for the birds!!! The older I get; the less I can tolerate. Ladies and gentlemen, I don’t understand why we must play these games just to get to know someone. Isn’t dating about trying to see who you are compatible with mentally, spiritually, physically, and hopefully in the future? Is it okay to date a plethora of people at the same time? Is it actually called dating when sex gets involved with more than one party in your “dating” scene? Can
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Jun 19, 20184 min read


It’s My Time To Shine!!
It is my time to shine and I know it!! Ain’t nothing wrong with having a little confidence from time to time. Hell, I have been thru so...
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Jun 15, 20182 min read


Oooh Nooo, Not My Child!!!
Apparently, there are some parents that seem to turn a blind eye to how their children act out in public. It is always the teachers,...
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Jun 5, 20184 min read


Loyalty
According to the Collins English dictionary, “ Loyalty is the quality of staying firm in your friendship or support for someone or something”. Loyalty is being devoted and faithful to someone, something, or a belief wholeheartedly that it may risk losing family, friendship, and your mind!! But when is it NOT ok to be loyal to someone who continuously lies, disappoints, and participate in behavior that is not only risky but can cause harm to others?
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Jun 3, 20182 min read


Can You Hear Me Now?
I can remember back in the day when it was shunned upon if you showed any sign of weakness. You could not express to your parents or...
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May 27, 20183 min read


For the Love of Money
For the past couple of years, I have noticed an increase in shade thrown at people who do not wear specific name brand clothes and/or...
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May 20, 20184 min read


SHOOT YOUR SHOT!!
Within time, you soon become familiar with what it is you want. From one of my previous blogs concerning dating, I acknowledged that I...
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May 14, 20182 min read


Motherhood
Being a mother isn’t an easy job at all. To actually be responsible for another human being’s character, mannerism, education, and...
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May 8, 20183 min read


Love Thy Neighbor
There is nothing better than having a relationship with your neighbors that create a “village” atmosphere. Every address I have ever lived; I always had great relationships with my neighbors. We looked out for one another regularly and kept a watchful eye out for our children. I can remember when I was a child how my parent’s and grandparent’s neighbors were also my disciplinarians. They made sure I wasn’t doing anything disrespectful or wrong in the area. My current situ
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May 2, 20183 min read


The Vicious Cycle of Karmic Relationships
Real Talk with Anele- Relationship I had the pleasure of viewing a wonderful South African talk show discussing relationships (Click on...
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Apr 15, 20185 min read


GO FUND ME A LIFE INSURANCE POLICY!
GoFundMe accounts have taken over life insurance policies hosting over 10,000 funeral and memorial campaigns to date and being the second...
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Apr 1, 20184 min read
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