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No One Owes You Shit!!!
I saw a posting earlier this week on one of my Facebook friends concerning the topic, “You’re Not Entitled To Shit!!!” and it struck a...
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Jul 29, 20186 min read


When You Can’t Decide Between The Two; This Is What You Do
Throughout relationships, you may find yourself in a thing or two that changes the magnitude of how you view commitment. It’s the thing...
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Jul 22, 20187 min read


Marriage Isn’t a Game; Marriage Is…
I’ve been married before and I can say that at the time, I got married for the wrong reasons. One reason was I was tired of being the...
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Jul 15, 20185 min read


The Dating Game
I must say that dating in 2018 is for the birds!!! The older I get; the less I can tolerate. Ladies and gentlemen, I don’t understand why we must play these games just to get to know someone. Isn’t dating about trying to see who you are compatible with mentally, spiritually, physically, and hopefully in the future? Is it okay to date a plethora of people at the same time? Is it actually called dating when sex gets involved with more than one party in your “dating” scene? Can
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Jun 19, 20184 min read


It’s My Time To Shine!!
It is my time to shine and I know it!! Ain’t nothing wrong with having a little confidence from time to time. Hell, I have been thru so...
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Jun 15, 20182 min read


Oooh Nooo, Not My Child!!!
Apparently, there are some parents that seem to turn a blind eye to how their children act out in public. It is always the teachers,...
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Jun 5, 20184 min read


Loyalty
According to the Collins English dictionary, “ Loyalty is the quality of staying firm in your friendship or support for someone or something”. Loyalty is being devoted and faithful to someone, something, or a belief wholeheartedly that it may risk losing family, friendship, and your mind!! But when is it NOT ok to be loyal to someone who continuously lies, disappoints, and participate in behavior that is not only risky but can cause harm to others?
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Jun 3, 20182 min read


For the Love of Money
For the past couple of years, I have noticed an increase in shade thrown at people who do not wear specific name brand clothes and/or...
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May 20, 20184 min read


SHOOT YOUR SHOT!!
Within time, you soon become familiar with what it is you want. From one of my previous blogs concerning dating, I acknowledged that I...
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May 14, 20182 min read


Motherhood
Being a mother isn’t an easy job at all. To actually be responsible for another human being’s character, mannerism, education, and...
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May 8, 20183 min read


Love Thy Neighbor
There is nothing better than having a relationship with your neighbors that create a “village” atmosphere. Every address I have ever lived; I always had great relationships with my neighbors. We looked out for one another regularly and kept a watchful eye out for our children. I can remember when I was a child how my parent’s and grandparent’s neighbors were also my disciplinarians. They made sure I wasn’t doing anything disrespectful or wrong in the area. My current situ
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May 2, 20183 min read


The Vicious Cycle of Karmic Relationships
Real Talk with Anele- Relationship I had the pleasure of viewing a wonderful South African talk show discussing relationships (Click on...
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Apr 15, 20185 min read


GO FUND ME A LIFE INSURANCE POLICY!
GoFundMe accounts have taken over life insurance policies hosting over 10,000 funeral and memorial campaigns to date and being the second...
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Apr 1, 20184 min read


A Fatherless Child
Within our society, it has become a necessity to ensure that our children have a reliable and honorable male figure in their lives. It...
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Mar 24, 20184 min read


Sense of Entitlement
We have done our children such an injustice. Come on, don’t act like you don’t know what I am talking about. Giving our children any...
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Mar 18, 20185 min read


Is Chivalry DEAD???
Chivalry has become a thing of the pass in my opinion. We have justified lowering expectations and standards in order to appease what has become “acceptable behavior”. Some men and women hear the word chivalry and began to cringe. The very thought of them attempting to become a “gentlemen” gets them nervous. Many men exhibited chivalry acts such as opening doors, pulling your chair out, and giving you his coat when you were cold on a consistent basis. He didn’t expect a woman
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Mar 6, 20183 min read


Vengeance Is Not Mine
Have you ever wondered why certain people who always cause problems in people’s lives and/or hurt people never get what’s coming to them?...
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Mar 3, 20185 min read


Forgive or Not to Forgive; That is the Question
At my age, I have become accustomed to letting go without hatred. Remember I was bitter in my twenties and was headstrong. Now I am...
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Feb 24, 20185 min read


Always Count Your Blessings Instead of Your Misfortunes…
I am by far not a religious person, but I do believe in God. We all have a higher power. Think about it… Who created everything that...
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Feb 18, 20184 min read


Teen Dating and Violence Awareness
The month of February is associated with love. What better way to introduce to our young teens the importance of a healthy...
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Feb 14, 20183 min read
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