Hooray!!! You finally got approved to file for bankruptcy.  You think the coast is clear and you can start all over again.  You hit hard...

Even though I hate to admit it but I am practicing non-attachment.  It is a way to protect your soul and heart from disappointment. Please do not get it confused with detachment!!! It is not that type of party.  It sounds like a bad thing, but it really isn’t.  Trust me, I still have feelings and empathy for people. Non-attachment “ allows us to live in this world fully, without being attached to people, things or thoughts that create suffering” (www.lonerwolf.com) . Non-atta

I must say that dating in 2018 is for the birds!!! The older I get; the less I can tolerate. Ladies and gentlemen, I don’t understand why we must play these games just to get to know someone.  Isn’t dating about trying to see who you are compatible with mentally, spiritually, physically, and hopefully in the future? Is it okay to date a plethora of people at the same time? Is it actually called dating when sex gets involved with more than one party in your “dating” scene? Can

It is my time to shine and I know it!!  Ain’t nothing wrong with having a little confidence from time to time. Hell, I have been thru so...

Apparently, there are some parents that seem to turn a blind eye to how their children act out in public.  It is always the teachers,...

According to the Collins English dictionary, “ Loyalty is  the quality of staying firm in your friendship or support for someone or something”. Loyalty is being devoted and faithful to someone, something, or a belief wholeheartedly that it may risk losing family, friendship, and your mind!! But when is it NOT ok to be loyal to someone who continuously lies, disappoints, and participate in behavior that is not only risky but can cause harm to others?

I can remember back in the day when it was shunned upon if you showed any sign of weakness.  You could not express to your parents or...

For the past couple of years, I have noticed an increase in shade thrown at people who do not wear specific name brand clothes and/or...

Within time, you soon become familiar with what it is you want. From one of my previous blogs concerning dating, I acknowledged that I...

Being a mother isn’t an easy job at all.  To actually be responsible for another human being’s character, mannerism, education, and...

There is nothing better than having a relationship with your neighbors that create a “village” atmosphere.  Every address I have ever lived; I always had great relationships with my neighbors. We looked out for one another regularly and kept a watchful eye out for our children.  I can remember when I was a child how my parent’s and grandparent’s neighbors were also my disciplinarians.  They made sure I wasn’t doing anything disrespectful or wrong in the area.  My current situ

Being an entrepreneur is a very risky yet rewarding career.  Establishing loyal customers is also very challenging. But being a...

Real Talk with Anele- Relationship I had the pleasure of viewing a wonderful South African talk show discussing relationships (Click on...

GoFundMe accounts have taken over life insurance policies hosting over 10,000 funeral and memorial campaigns to date and being the second...

Within our society, it has become a necessity to ensure that our children have a reliable and honorable male figure in their lives.  It...

We have done our children such an injustice.  Come on, don’t act like you don’t know what I am talking about.  Giving our children any...

Ladies, I know we may complain about our men, but there are some good ones sprinkled around.  I’m waiting on Mr. Right to come scoop me...

Chivalry has become a thing of the pass in my opinion. We have justified lowering expectations and standards in order to appease what has become “acceptable behavior”. Some men and women hear the word chivalry and began to cringe. The very thought of them attempting to become a “gentlemen” gets them nervous. Many men exhibited chivalry acts such as opening doors, pulling your chair out, and giving you his coat when you were cold on a consistent basis. He didn’t expect a woman

Have you ever wondered why certain people who always cause problems in people’s lives and/or hurt people never get what’s coming to them?...

After watching the greatest movie of all time, Black Panther , I witnessed what a beautiful thing it would be if black women worked together instead of against each other. The power of a woman in itself is magnificent, but the beauty of a black woman is something to be admired. Hey, we get one month out of the year to exhibit all the great things “we” have done throughout the century but it still doesn’t do us, black women, enough justice. We as women support and fight for ou