Throughout relationships, you may find yourself in a thing or two that changes the magnitude of how you view commitment. It’s the thing...

I’ve been married before and I can say that at the time, I got married for the wrong reasons.  One reason was I was tired of being the...

I must say that dating in 2018 is for the birds!!! The older I get; the less I can tolerate. Ladies and gentlemen, I don’t understand why we must play these games just to get to know someone.  Isn’t dating about trying to see who you are compatible with mentally, spiritually, physically, and hopefully in the future? Is it okay to date a plethora of people at the same time? Is it actually called dating when sex gets involved with more than one party in your “dating” scene? Can

It is my time to shine and I know it!!  Ain’t nothing wrong with having a little confidence from time to time. Hell, I have been thru so...

Apparently, there are some parents that seem to turn a blind eye to how their children act out in public.  It is always the teachers,...

According to the Collins English dictionary, “ Loyalty is  the quality of staying firm in your friendship or support for someone or something”. Loyalty is being devoted and faithful to someone, something, or a belief wholeheartedly that it may risk losing family, friendship, and your mind!! But when is it NOT ok to be loyal to someone who continuously lies, disappoints, and participate in behavior that is not only risky but can cause harm to others?

For the past couple of years, I have noticed an increase in shade thrown at people who do not wear specific name brand clothes and/or...

Within time, you soon become familiar with what it is you want. From one of my previous blogs concerning dating, I acknowledged that I...

Being a mother isn’t an easy job at all.  To actually be responsible for another human being’s character, mannerism, education, and...

There is nothing better than having a relationship with your neighbors that create a “village” atmosphere.  Every address I have ever lived; I always had great relationships with my neighbors. We looked out for one another regularly and kept a watchful eye out for our children.  I can remember when I was a child how my parent’s and grandparent’s neighbors were also my disciplinarians.  They made sure I wasn’t doing anything disrespectful or wrong in the area.  My current situ

Real Talk with Anele- Relationship I had the pleasure of viewing a wonderful South African talk show discussing relationships (Click on...

Within our society, it has become a necessity to ensure that our children have a reliable and honorable male figure in their lives.  It...

Ladies, I know we may complain about our men, but there are some good ones sprinkled around.  I’m waiting on Mr. Right to come scoop me...

Chivalry has become a thing of the pass in my opinion. We have justified lowering expectations and standards in order to appease what has become “acceptable behavior”. Some men and women hear the word chivalry and began to cringe. The very thought of them attempting to become a “gentlemen” gets them nervous. Many men exhibited chivalry acts such as opening doors, pulling your chair out, and giving you his coat when you were cold on a consistent basis. He didn’t expect a woman

Have you ever wondered why certain people who always cause problems in people’s lives and/or hurt people never get what’s coming to them?...

After watching the greatest movie of all time, Black Panther , I witnessed what a beautiful thing it would be if black women worked together instead of against each other. The power of a woman in itself is magnificent, but the beauty of a black woman is something to be admired. Hey, we get one month out of the year to exhibit all the great things “we” have done throughout the century but it still doesn’t do us, black women, enough justice. We as women support and fight for ou

I am by far not a religious person, but I do believe in God.  We all have a higher power.  Think about it… Who created everything that...

The month of February is associated with love.  What better way to introduce to our young teens the importance of a healthy...

I have encountered beautiful souls daily in my lifetime.  It can be for just a few minutes or a lifetime.  Think about it.  The girls you met in the bathroom during a party (by the way those are the best type of  girlfriends to have hahaha), in the line at the grocery store, or sitting beside you on the bus.  If you take the time to be kind to another person; you would be amazed what you could actually learn from them just by rewarding them the opportunity to talk while you

Now you know I have already let you all in on my past dating issues and bad choices.  And I promised you all that I was going to speak about my take on the dating scene. I also stated that I know what I want in a man when I am ready to start dating again. So here it goes!!!